So I only made it to less than two weeks between tears, 12 days to be exact. I cried the morning of my birthday on October 10th and then again at the MEND Subsequent Pregnancy meeting on October 22nd. Those MEND meetings can be tear-jerkers but oh so supportive and healing. I think two weeks between tears is as good as it's going to get for a while and that's ok especially since I am a "feeler" according to my Myers Briggs and a "blue/ red" according to my color temperament. Crying every two weeks actually feels like huge progress. I remember the early days, weeks and months of grief where I don't think I got through a single day without at least a couple of tears.